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Feminism

Feminism So what is feminism?!.... Everyone we ask this question would answer that supporting women is feminism but is it..? To be honest this not feminism. So again the question arises, what is feminism! According to dictionary it is the advocacy of women’s rights on the ground of equality of the sexes. And what we hear is totally different. Just supporting women isn’t called feminism at all. A female gender has to face challenges since she is born. There are still some parts in our country where girls are considered bad omen in families while in vedic purans a girl is considered the form of Lakshmi and same Lakshmi is being killed just because she is girl and can be a burden on her parents. This is done in some parts of country but if we talk about overall situation, it is still not that great. Since birth girl has to faces lots of challenges. Since day one people assume that when this girl will get older her ultimate goal would be to get married. When she comes in high schoo...

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The constant urge to do something new in ur life goes on after getting failure in a terrible way. Life takes a dig and questions ur maturity after facing failures. We get tons of challenges to face, the first and foremost is to face ourselves and regain the courage to restart from zero. The second is to process our surrounding negativity and develop ignoring power at great extent which is damn difficult to be honest. The first two steps itself is a great challenging task to be honest and its my personal experience. Anyhow we overcome these two steps, the next step is to see our own friends doing good for their career when here we have to make compromises with ourselves and our career choices. Next step is to face distrust from our own family, they start thinking that we are good for nothing. Especially when the case is with a girl! People say that india is forwarding in direction of women empowerment but is that really true? Women empowerment starts from our house itself but we spot ra...

Limitations and Insecurities

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Limitations and insecurities: Have we thought about these 2 words deeply? People will say that limitations means that a breaking point of a person emotionally or physically and yes to some extent it is correct..! Talking about insecurities we see a lot of people comparing these insecurities with fear and to some extent it is also true... In fact many won't know but these two words are inter related Now the question arises that how! Our insecurities create restrictions on us and those restriction turn out into limitations. What kind of restriction is the first question that will arise! Restriction on thoughts, we stop thinking beyond our insecurities and that's the point from where limitations arise and these limitations lead to fear. we tend to create a boundary in our mind about certain things and then it becomes our limitations without us knowing about it. We stop thinking beyond that boundary and our creativity, ideology gets devastated.  That devastating feeling leads to fe...

New day,new beginnings

Lord Krishna lived for 150 years. In the span of 150 years he has faced a lot of issues. In today's time human always complains about his/her issues going in life,even a small change in health is a big issue in today's world but have we ever thought that our issues is just a small dot in front of issues faced by lord himself....? Lord Krishna saw his whole Scion dying in front of his eyes...have we ever imagined the amount of pain he had gone through? People will argue that he was lord himself so it won't affect him much but still how can we forget the fact that ultimately he was in the form of a human on earth. A human is an ocean of infinite emotions and lord Krishna was an incarnation of Shri Hari Narayan in form of a human so he also had those all emotions which a normal human will have. He got cursed so many times during his presence on earth and each and every time he took all the curse on himself with a sweet smile which teaches us a simple lesson with deep meaning t...

comparison

Comparison:  The most evil word in the dictionary because this demotivates the person in just one second. It takes no time to get our self esteem down. A step towards self destruction is comparing ourselves and our work with others. This leds us to think that opposite person with whom we're comparing ourselves is superior then us. But that is not true everyone is unique in their own way but somewhere we all lost ourselves while comparing ourselves with others, that struggle of being superior has ruined our inner happiness and has led us to comparing with others.  But what do we get by comparing ourselves?                 The answer is simple. We only get disappointment, jealousy,low self esteem,irritation and ultimately that useless need to be superior. Instead let's just be ourselves. Perfectly imperfect. Let's compare ourselves with us only and go on the path to conquer our own success. Perfection lies in being imperfect. Flaws ar...

Bad phase

Bad phase: There always comes a bad phase in our life that we face a drastic failure which almost breaks us internally, mentally, emotionally and no doubt everyone has faced that time. We start doubting ourselves and self esteem goes down.And at that time we think why with me only! Why we got to face such worst situation feeling us devastated! The answer to this is trust. Now u will think how come trust comes in bad phase but yet it's the truth. Trust of the universe on us that we would be able to face any kind of worst situation in life. We think that everything is wrong with us only but no,everything is going to be best when we get out of bad phase. Whenever we come in a bad phase of life we need to remember that it's not permanent. Nothing is permanent and so implies to bad phase. Whenever bad times come just remember one thing that the nature,the universe has selected us to go through the situation because they have trust on us that we will face it and overcome the time. G...

Confidence

Confidence: So what is the confidence? maybe we have defined confidence as our ability to speak something what we want or express us whenever we want but is that true? Confidence is a feeling not what we have defined,it is not a behaviour,it is the inner feeling for a great progress in life.But people take confidence in a wrong way,like over confidence where they feel themselves superior then others and always have that attitude of neglecting other's opinion,in over confidence a person looses perspicacity for others because they see themselves as superior to others. Unembellished talks and attitude spoils that person's relation with others.Also low confidence leads us to making ourselves debilitating which leads to comparison and further relinquishing the self motivation.Even during the time of Mahabharat Arjun faced the issue of low confidence which led him to think to leave the war of justice. But he didn't give up,rebuilt his confidence because he had faith in God and Go...